Bandung, November 20th 2016
Hi readers, right now I’m sharing you some points of alpha female’s characters. I heard about alpha character from my special friend. She gave me an ebook about alpha female character, but actually I still have no time to read it; until an article which written about it appeared on my facebook wall. Based on the explanation below, I think I’m an alpha female; but I shouldn’t be confident about it, I need to do some test to get to know wheter I’m an alpha female or not.
Some men like their women submissive, sweet, feminine, and nurturing – and hey, there’s nothing wrong with that. But those character are certainly not an Alpha Female.
Alpha Females are badass bitches, it takes a very particular man to be able to handle them. Yes, they might as well admit it now: they are a handful.
Potential Alpha Female Lovers: don’t say you weren’t warned. You best know your woman before you fall head over heels for Miss Independent:
1. She will challenge you.
Not only she will challenge you, but she probably won’t forfeit too easily; she will be persistent and insistent. She will debate with you over anything from the Blasio’s new policy, to the actual color of a tennis ball (green? or yellow?), and she expects to win. Some advice: challenge her back.
2. She doesn’t need a man to make it happen.
If you’re the kind of guy who loves to feel needed all the time, this girl just isn’t for you. She is fiercely independent and prides herself on being self-reliant and self-sufficient: Miss Outta My Way. The great thing about being with an Alpha is that you won’t feel tied down because she doesn’t need you, she wants you.
3. She will be straight-up with you.
If your Alpha has a problem, you will most likely know about it. You can’t expect her to be too gentle with her words, so hopefully you’ll understand that she isn’t trying to be mean – this is just the way she is. But, hey, you won’t need to deal with the typical passive-aggressive bullshit that most girls pull!
4. She’s a do-er, not a talk-er.
Alpha’s take action, so if she says she’s gonna do something – you bet your ass, she’s gonna do it. She probably expects the same in return: if you say you’re gonna do something, you sure as hell better follow through. And if you don’t, she will…so don’t miss the boat, Mister. Hop on!
5. She doesn’t wear her Alpha on her sleeve.
Chocolates? Flowers? One of those Hallmark cards are cute. You can show how much you love her. Yeah, these things will probably make her vom a little in her mouth before it makes her heart melt. Not that she’s a total cynic, but she’s used to the doting – the lovey dovey crap that every girl wants – and in order to get her attention, you’ll need to come up with something a little more original.
6. She’s not easy.
If you think loving an Alpha Female is easy, you’re wrong. She’s difficult, competitive, and probably complicated. She gets off from being free, being in power, and will step on any man who gets in her way. She is, in fact, ab. So. Lute. Ly. Impossible.
7. But she’s definitely worth it.
Her my-way-or-the-highway attitude and complete self-competence will, at times, make you feel small. Instead, let it empower you. Let it strengthen your weaknesses, and let it feed your drive to success. She will help you learn about yourself; she will push you; she will change you; she will impact you. Overall, she will make you a better man.
Point number 1, alpha females like challenging you. But it doesn’t mean they are stubborn. They only want to know how you respon something, what’s your perception about something.
I think point number 2 is representing me. I don’t understand, but I feel uncomfortable when a man acts like I should need him all the time. I need boyfriend, yes, but I don’t like if I should act like I need him so much & depend on him. I really wanna do anything with my own way, of course with full of respect I would ask my boyfriend about something I wanna do. When I act too independent, it doesn’t mean I don’t need partner. I only need & want him understand that I’m different. So don’t treat me like other women.
And I also agree with point number 3, that alpha females don’t do “suck up” to make people happy. Alpha females like telling you the truth. If it’s right, they will say it’s right. If it’s wrong, they will stand for the right thing and don’t ever you argue with them. It doesn’t mean that alpha females are rude, maybe the exact word to describe them is “idealist”.
Point number 4, alpha females don’t talk boolshit. They will say something usefull and also do something important. Don’t talk to much boolshit to them if you don’t want them to leave you.
Point number 5, alpha females are not too cool to not recieve chocolates or flowers. Anthing you called romantic stuffs are ok. The problem is the way you give those stuff. Alpha females will be so happy to accept it, but don’t act like a “drama king”.
Point number 6, why alpha females are not easy; It’s because they want you to respect them. They want to discuss anything with you. So don’t push her to do this or that, because they have their own choices. They are not easy because they want you realize that they are worthy enough for you.
Point number 7. I bet you won’t regret having alpha females as your girlfriend or wife. They know what to think, they know what to speak, they know how to act. What you need to do is, be a great partner for them! Don’t be too careless, but also don’t be too exagerate.
Well readers, are you an alpha female? Don’t worry. Enjoy it. Enjoy your relationship, enjoy your life, enjoy everything. It’s kinda cool being an alpha female right? We have the standard, we have the values. We only need someone who will understand us that we need to love them as who we are. We’re not too feminin, we’re not too boyish. We’re just a bit different from those women. ^_^
Thank you for reading….
Naomi Indah Sari
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